Under the Radar 

Where we talk to and learn about Mitzvah heroes, those amazing people who are doing their part in Tikkun Olam and making the world a better place to live in.

Under the Radar: Odelia Ben-Porat

May 1, 2022 | Regular Feature, Under the Radar, Women in Leadership

Written by Arnie Draiman

Is the pioneering spirit only seen these days in hi-tech startups? No! The Hebrew word for pioneer, halutz, usually refers to those Jews who came to the land of Israel during the pre-state years, in the last century.

But there are those today who are every bit of a halutz as those who came 100 years ago. Odelia Ben-Porat and her family are just one example. Let’s take a look at how she turned from secular Israeli to Observant ‘halutznik’.

Odelia was born in Gedera, a small city about halfway between Rehovot and Ashdod. Her family was a typical secular Israeli family, until at the age of 12, her parents decided to become Observant. 

Upon graduation, most Israelis enter the IDF for army service or have the choice to do National Service (Sherut Leumi) volunteer programs. Odelia chose the National Service option, and worked for one year with the newly arrived Ethiopians (from Operations Moses and Solomon) at a school in Petach Tikvah. During her second year of service, she worked with girls at risk in Bnei Brak – girls not much younger than she was, but who were, in her words, “very damaged and faced so many challenges.” Odelia, too, faced many challenges during her National Service – for almost all of the Ethiopians, this was their first time outside their village. They came with so little and entered a completely different world. It was hard for them to understand, and even harder for Odelia and the others to understand the new immigrants, and not just because of the language barrier. (Imagine never having seen a refrigerator or a toilet, and then being expected to know how to use them…)

During her second year in Bnei Brak, she started her degree studies at Bar Ilan University, which was just a short distance away, and provided a comfortable college experience for an Observant person. She studied Linguistics in the English Language, finished her BA and did a teaching degree as well, so she could be employed as an English teacher. She was quickly employed both in the public school system and in a private school as well. One coincidental experience is that Odelia was offered to teach at Ulpana Tzviyah, where she had been a student in 7th grade. Being right out of university, she still looked very young, and assuming she was a student, she was frequently asked by other teachers what she was doing in the teachers’ lounge during breaks! 

While at Bar Ilan, she worked for a relatively new publication, Makor Rishon, heading up their subscription department (pioneering experience #2). The newspaper caters to the Modern Orthodox crowd, and still is quite popular today. 

After her degree and after teaching for a year or two, Odelia wanted to try living in Jerusalem. She moved, got a job teaching, and met her husband. They got married, and then moved to Yavneh, which is closer to where both of their parents lived and where they were raised. And then, desiring yet another pioneering experience, they moved to the little Gush Emunim town of Kedumim in the Shomron (Samaria), north of Ariel, population then about 2,000 and currently about 4,000. They had their first child there.

Though they were looking for the small-town

pioneering lifestyle, they weren’t happy in Kedumim, and they wanted a change away from the Shomron lifestyle to a place with a better security situation in order to raise their family.  So, in early 2006, they chose Sderot, a relatively quiet town (then a population of 20,000) near the Gaza border . For those who already understand the punchline, Sderot came under attack from Hamas rockets and missiles in mid-2006, and while the Ben-Porats enjoyed the community more, it would be hard-pressed to say that their security situation improved. 

In Sderot, there were other pioneers who had formed a group, a garin, so that they could work together to help strengthen the city. These 80 families created a non-profit organization called Reut Sderot, and Odelia joined in to help as well. Reut helped build better schools, run programs and activities for the people of Sderot, and more. Sderot had been a development town, set up to house immigrants, and hence, more than a third of the population was known to municipal social services. 

Not surprisingly, young Israelis love a challenge, and love to provide a working solution – Sderot was one such challenge. More and more young Israeli families moved to Sderot despite the now constant bombardment of the city by Hamas. The population has grown to more than 30,000 and Reut’s membership shows more than 500 families! Construction continues in Sderot, and housing is hard to find, so that more families that want to come are placed on a waiting list. Reut has become such a welcome group in

Sderot that the current mayor is one of their members, and many of the municipal officials and staff are as well.  And they have changed the face of the city from one of isolation and poverty, to one of being connected to the center of the country by the Israeli Railways, and a growing economic development and hi-tech park. Reut has lifted up the educational levels of the entire city, including starting a new program for ‘Talented and Gifted’ kids. 

Odelia now heads the development office for Reut’s many projects. In addition, she works for Gumat Chen, a home for teen girls at risk, located on Kibbutz Saad. And, in her spare time, she volunteers in Sderot with a program called Tachleet, which works with kids at risk as well. Her family has grown to six children, and she recently finished her MA in Judaic Studies, Jewish Culture, and Israeli Leadership.

She is often asked about living in Sderot, under the non-stop barrage of attacks (more than 20,000 missiles in the last 15 years). She has seen her children regress at times like many of the children in Sderot. But, she says, “the community is so strong, and everyone helps one another.” She has thought often of leaving, but feels very strongly that she needs to stay. The vision of Reut Sderot has become her vision: strengthening the community. Odelia adds, “This is the first time I really felt that I was living Jewish values, the highest values to live for, and that has helped us in dealing with our children. Our children hear the message, and feel strengthened by it as well.”

The vision of Reut Sderot has become her vision: strengthening the community.

Related Articles

Related