Should Jews Celebrate Thanksgiving? Thoughts from Both Sides of the Aisle

Nov 1, 2021 | Holidays, Jewish thought and practice

Every morning upon waking, the observant Jew, both female and male, recites the prayer of thanksgiving, even before their feet touch the floor.

  מוֹדָה אֲנִי לְפָנֶֽיךָ מֶֽלֶךְ חַי וְקַיָּים. שֶׁהֶֽחֱזַֽרְתָּ בִּי נִשְׁמָתִי, בְּחֶמְלָה רַבָּה אֱמֽוּנָתֶֽךָ׃

Modah ani lefanekha melekh ḥai vekayam sheheḥezarta bi nishmati b’ḥemlah, rabah emunatekha. (f)

I give thanks before you, living and eternal King, for You have returned within me my soul with compassion; abundant is Your faithfulness!

For the Jewish people, every day is a day of giving thanks – for life, sustenance, livelihood, health, etc. And it all starts with this beautiful little ritual of gratitude. 

But it’s not only in our prayers that we are prompted to be grateful, we also have specially designated days for Yom Tov (holidays), commemorating significant events in our historic journey. These days, with their narratives, help remind us of who we are, where we came from and to Whom we belong.  

The traditional foods and various customs associated with each holiday give us a sense of belonging, being a small part of a greater whole. And most of all, they inspire us to give thanks for all the blessings we have as a result. While Shabbat serves as a weekly opportunity to slow down and focus on what we have to be grateful for, we have eight (depending on how you count them) holidays spread throughout the Jewish calendar year to re-center us and help us focus on what is really important in our lives.

For Jews in the diaspora, with all the complexities involved in trying to celebrate the Jewish holidays in a non-Jewish world, there is also the dilemma of whether or not to acknowledge a custom or holiday of their birth/host country. In the case of Thanksgiving, it’s not merely a question of whether or not to eat turkey. Rather, it is important to understand what the original American holiday of Thanksgiving is commemorating, before deciding whether or not to celebrate it. 

Facts About Thanksgiving

Very little is really known about the holiday, due to there being only two firsthand accounts of the feast ever written. Most of the stories of the celebrations are actually myths.

The first account is William Bradford’s journal titled Of Plymouth Plantation and the other is a publication written by Edward Winslow titled Mourt’s Relations

Most of the information we have comes from Bradford’s notes.

The first Thanksgiving was a harvest celebration held by the Pilgrims of Plymouth colony in the 17th century. They celebrated the successful fall harvest which was an English tradition at the time and the Pilgrims had much to celebrate.

There were 53 Pilgrims at the first Thanksgiving who were the only colonists to survive the long journey on the Mayflower and the first winter in the New World. Disease and starvation struck down nearly half of the original 102 colonists.

These Pilgrims made it through that first winter and, with the help of the local Wampanoag people, they had a hearty supply of food to sustain them through the next winter. No exact date exists but was most likely between September and November of 1621.

The celebration took place for three days and included recreational activities. Guests included 90 Wampanoag Indians from a nearby village, including their leader Massasoit. One of these Indians, a young man named Squanto, spoke fluent English and had been appointed by Massasoit to serve as the Pilgrims’ translator and guide. He learned English while serving as a slave

to English explorers. 

Many dishes served during modern Thanksgiving meals were not present at the first Thanksgiving. The colonists didn’t have potatoes, nor did they have butter or flour necessary for making pies. The Pilgrims hadn’t even built their first oven by the time of the first Thanksgiving. Cranberries might have been served but only for color or tartness, instead of as a sweet sauce.

Neither Bradford nor Winslow’s writing reveals what was actually served at the first Thanksgiving meal, besides fowl and deer, but guesses can be made based on the types of food they often wrote about, such as mussels, lobsters, grapes, plums, corn and herbs.

There is no actual proof that the colonists ate turkey at the feast either. Turkey wasn’t even associated with the Thanksgiving holiday until an editor of a magazine called Godey’s Lady’s Book came across Edward Winslow’s writings about the feast in the 1840s.

When this editor, Sarah Josepha Hale, read Winslow’s writings, she decided to bring this historic celebration back to life. Up until then, Thanksgiving was only a regional New England holiday and wasn’t celebrated across the country like it is today. Hale began publishing recipes and articles about the feast. 

Hale focused her attention on the brief sentence about the colonists’ hunt for wild turkeys that fall:And besides waterfowl there was a great store of wild turkeys, of which they took many, besides venison, etc,” Bradford wrote.

Despite the fact that Bradford never stated they ate turkey at the Thanksgiving feast, Hale started publishing articles about Thanksgiving dinners with roasted turkey and the two became synonymous.

Many people believe Thanksgiving became a recurring celebration for the Pilgrims. Whether this is true or not is unclear. There are no other accounts of the Pilgrims holding any more harvest celebrations after 1621. It is possible that the feasts happened, but it wasn’t recorded.

Who Were the Pilgrims?
The Pilgrims were English settlers who came to North America on the Mayflower and established the Plymouth Colony in what is today Plymouth, Massachusetts. Plymouth was named after the Mayflower’s final departure port of Plymouth, England. The Pilgrims were Puritans who had fled religious persecution in England for the tolerance of 17th-century Holland in the Netherlands. After several years living in exile in Holland, they eventually decided to establish a settlement in the New World and arranged funding. They established Plymouth Colony in 1620, and their story became a central theme in the history and culture of the United States.

Why Is it Called Thanksgiving?

The original feast celebrated by the Pilgrims in 1621 was never actually called “Thanksgiving” by the colonists. It was simply a harvest celebration. A few years later, in July of 1623, the Pilgrims did 

hold what they called a “Thanksgiving.” This was simply a religious day of prayer and fasting that had nothing to do with the fall harvest. But over the years, the names of the two events becameintertwined and by the late 1600s many individual colonies and settlements began holding “Thanksgiving feasts” during the autumn months.

When Did Thanksgiving Become a National Holiday?

The Continental Congress declared the first national Thanksgiving on December 18, 1777 and then in 1789, George Washington declared the last Thursday in November a national Thanksgiving as well. These were merely declarations and not official holidays. Future presidents did not continue the Thanksgiving declaration.

Thanksgiving didn’t become a national holiday until Hale began writing letters to each sitting president starting in 1846. She wrote letters to five presidents: Zachary Taylor, Millard Filmore, Franklin Pierce, James Buchanan and Abraham Lincoln asking them to declare Thanksgiving a national holiday.

Abraham Lincoln was the only president to listen and supported legislation making it a national holiday in 1863. America was in the middle of its bloody Civil War at the time and Lincoln hoped the new holiday would unify the bitterly divided country. The holiday was finally a success and Thanksgiving has continued ever since.

And Today, What Does It Mean for Most Americans?
For most Americans, the Thanksgiving holiday is not observed as a true harvest festival, celebrating the produce bounty yielded from the earth by the labor of our hands, or even a day of prayer and fasting, giving thanks to the Creator for the abundance He granted us. 

Rather, it has become simply a day off of work when the women cook and the guys watch football and the children are captivated by a televised holiday parade. In many cases rather than being a day of truly giving thanks, it has become a gluttonous indulgent feast – a commercialized distortion of what those Christian Pilgrims actually did.

So what are we to do? 

Many Orthodox Jews do not observe this (originally Christian) harvest festival. Others observe it as a national day off. And still others feel there’s nothing wrong with adding an additional day of thanksgiving to our already abundant calendar of holidays. But Judaism does have a thanksgiving feast already embedded in our calendar – a full week of opportunities to focus on the bounty that God has supplied us while we sit in the sukkah, the ultimate symbol of Hashem’s faithful, loving and constant protection.

In the end, it’s up to you to decide what is right for you and your family, but it’s important to know all the facts (and myths) before you decide what this day really means for you.

 

In the end, it’s up to you to decide what is right for you and your family, but it’s important to know all the facts (and myths) before you decide what this day really means for you.

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